Press Clipping(s): Friendship when peace may seem far
July 31, 2006
A recent article in Washington Post reminded me so much of my dear friend O, who also was my room mate for several years in grad school. I remember him because as a Jewish Israeli (albeit a rather secular moderate), he certainly stood out among my other friends (many of whom happen to be Arab and/or Muslim). I met him in my first year of grad school and to date we stay as close friends. There were many nights when we had heated political discussions, but there were more nights when we would just watch movies, have friends over for parties, or grab food in the Cambridge, MA neighborhood.
Through him (and a few other Israeli friends), I got to know the peaceful, moderate side of the Israeli society — and also how Israeli men love cooking food to impress their dates! – and I hope through me, he learnt that while many of us are passionate about the issue of Palestinian identity and freedom, we also hope for peace and tranquility for the Jewish people. I don’t want to romanticize this friendship because through him I also realized how different and obliquely slanted the common Israeli perspective on the conflict is from what I believe to be the historical truthbut nevertheless we agreed that humanity needed to triumph in the face of adversity. My single most important lesson learnt in his friendship was the realization that even when politics were depressing, and made me angry from within, our friendship and our respect for each other would enable us to triumph over all the negative feelings. When our guards were down, we were (and are) just two people who are happy to know each other and keep each others’ company….In the case of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, perhaps the two sides will never agree to a common perspective on what and who carried a greater responsibility for the 6+ decades long tragedy, but maybe I can look forward to when the two nations will learn to live side by side, next door to each other, just like O and I. And if they have to share a common living space (ahem… Jerusalem!) they can also learn about that from us. Hey O - if you are reading: thanks for all those invites to that Cambridge Pub (Phoenix Landing) :). I still love you despite refusing to join you.
This article by Susan Kinzie in the Washington Post describes an interesting class co-taught at the University of Maryland by Palestinian and Israeli professors. Read the original article here.
Every detail had to be negotiated when an Israeli and a Palestinian started team-teaching a class on the Middle East. They haggled over the syllabus, the readings, the maps, even the words used: Was 1948, when Israel was formed, the War of Liberation — or the Catastrophe?
Kaufman, a longtime professor at Hebrew University, lectures on the Israeli version of events. Then Hassassian tells the Palestinian side. Both speak as scholars, analyzing the official rhetoric; both are moderates.
Still, the first summer was tense and adversarial, Hassassian said, as each tried to score points in class.
Hassassian is angry. Kaufman is worried.
If a cease-fire doesn’t happen soon, “the hatred that is mounting among these people will continue forever,” Hassassian said. It’s essential to ensure that people in the United States hear all sides, he said.
“It’s very tough. You lose your hope sometimes,” Kaufman said. The class is worth it, “but it is such a small drop in the ocean, it is really frustrating.”
After class late that night, they drove home to cook dinner. Lisa Kaufman was peeling squash. Edy Kaufman sliced onions. Hassassian brought ice to the table, and they sat down to a family dinner, passing the couscous from hand to hand, telling stories.
A small thing. But there it is: a peaceful coexistence.
NEWS: Israel has just halted aerial attacks on Lebanon after the killing of 60 civilians in the Lebanese Village of Qana, where Israeli bombing killed 106 people in 1996 as well. Maybe there is a ray of hope that this craziness will end and sanity will prevail a bit more?
Posted by Bilal Zuberi
The picture included here is not captured from the web. I really took this photograph at my lunch one day when we visited China last year for GEO2 work. To our surprise (and horror), we were served fried scorpions as a local delicacy. Luckily for R and I, J took one for the team and dived in to try one of them. R and I got away smiling and shaking our head while he muched away at the Scorpion tail :). Chinese lunch and dinner engagements are considered absolutely necessary for developing confidence with Chinese partners, and are generally considered the Chinese equivalent of a hand-shake agreement. So the next time you are given the opportunity to do business development in China, you should boldly look forward to gourmet meals like this….and a drink called Mau Tai which I am told tastes like Kerosene.
New age therapy for brain tumors may now include an ingredient in the venom of the Giant Yellow Isreali scorpion. This substance holds promise to attach itself to cancerous cells, slowing the growth of the tumor. The study which compiled these results involved 18 patients who first had surgical removal of malignant gliomas – the deadliest form of brain tumor. However, certain gliomas are always left behind after a tumor in the brain is surgically removed and they are known to resist treatment.Researchers then inserted a synthetic form of the scorpion venom protein called TM-601 on the 18 patients in the first phase, and found that it could deliver radio-active iodine through the blood barrier to gliomas. In order to maintain safety, researchers used low doses of TM-601 and the radiation levels were also kept below therapeutic standards.Results showed that in spite of these measures, two of the patients reached total radiologic responses and MRI scans showed that no tumors existed. Although average survival for the patients was 27 weeks, these patients were alive even three years after the treatment.Another positive finding was the whatever the level of dosage, no side effects were noticed. Also, the effects of radioactivity seemed to recede after 24 hours. The little activity was noticed after this seemed to cluster around the tumor bed, suggesting that the TM-601 was selectively attaching itself to the glioma cells.Dr. Adam Mamelak of the Cedars-Sinai Medical Center’s Dunitz Neurosurgical Institute in Los Angeles who led the study, pointed out that though this was in no way miraculous, it is a breakthrough and provides hope for illnesses which earlier had no cure. He further added that after more research is carried out, this technique might also be used in combination with other treatments like chemotherapy. This study is due for publication in the August issue of the Journal of Clinical Oncology.
As the old saying goes, a butterfly flapping its wings in China can lead to a hurricane in America. Well, what would you say if something small happening in a US state had the potential to overturn the very ‘engine’ the modern world was built on? A recent article in the
Regarding the 4 dominoes that may lead to a global domino-effect?:
I was given an an Apple ipod video as a gift for my last b-day (Thanks, L). With a large memory for all the video files I might store on it in addition to the music (I was recently offered to inherit a large number of business books in MP3 format — yay!!!), it was an expensive gift. As with other digital equipment that I own, I expected it to last a long time - until someone decided to replace it with a newer gizmo for me to play with. Well, Apple spokesperson recently announced (and it seems she did so by mistake and to much chagrin of Steve Jobs, Apple’s CEO) that the ipod systems are built to last for 4 years. She thought she was helping Apple with that answer, but Steve doesn’t seem to think so. He is known for keeping a real tight lid on inside affairs…and if you step outside the line, the whip comes down faster than you can imagine.


streets and making noise from pebble-filled cans, may be deemed dangerous by some residents of the city, but they are a unique Karachi thing and demonstrate the vibrance present in the local communities (in this case it is the coastal Makrani community who are typically given the credit for inventing donkey cart racing in Karachi). These cart races are organized on a different street each week and specially bred donkeys travel long distances to participate in them. Believe me, if you haven’t seen them before, you are missing a stirring sight. Even our President Musharraf has 
shown here in the childrens’ theatre of the Jenin refugee camp in 1996, was its most impressive student. At the time he dreamed of a future as the Palestinian Romeo! Six years later Ashraf led a large group of fighters in the battle of Jenin. He was killed by a rocket fired from a helicopter….I won’t describe the story here in detail, but I will just ask you to watch it (you can get it on












